Saturday, December 21, 2013

Alex and Mandy: How to do the UK in 6 not-so-easy Days


To cap off our incredible, different, crazy semesters, Alex and I decided to take a trip throughout the UK and Ireland. One of Alex’s fellow classmates from Amsterdam – Sarah - joined us and what an adventure we had. Feelings written while traveling are written in italics.

Saturday:
Alex and Sarah flew to London and crashed in Mandy’s closet of a room. (Shout-out to Isaac for helping with luggage). Mandy could barely keep her excitement on the train platform and may have casually tackled Alex when she saw her.

Alex: More thoughts to come on leaving Amsterdam. There are a lot of feelings and a lot of thanks that will be posted on my return to the states! (So stay tuned!)

Sunday:
Day 1 of our UK adventure began with us taking the train to Holyhead, Wales with the intent of taking a ferry to Dublin.
Mandy thoughts: I am listening to the playlist that Alex made before we went abroad and I can’t help but be amazed that she is now here with me. I’ve traveled all over this semester with mixed experiences. And this trip ahead of us may be filled with no sleep, tons of transportation, and who knows what else, but am so excited to have my partner in crime by my side.

Alex: 3.5 months has led to this ferry ride. This will be the end of my semester abroad. It has yet to hit me that I have left Amsterdam and I am never going back, but I am looking forward to 6 days with my best friend and going to a country where everything is in English. I can’t even imagine what’s in store, but at this moment we are infinite.

Our ferry was delayed due to inclement weather and the only thing near the ferry is a karaoke pub across the street (oh darn). We made friends with some Aussies and had the most amazing time listening to the family who runs the pub sing their hearts out and then we proceeded to belt out our own Katy Perry tunes. Wales was incredible.

Unfortunately, seas were still rough during our trip, which led to some miserable hours ahead, but we made it to Dublin.

Monday:
We settled into Dublin by taking the free walking tour and exploring the city. That night we went on a pub crawl and not only met some really fun people, but heard incredible live music at 3 of the 5 pubs we went to.

Mandy thoughts: Dublin music is the best.

Alex: Mandy is a social star. While Sarah & I were unable to stop talking about the life we just left in Amsterdam, we counted on Mandy to pick up some new friends for us and teach us the difference between chips and crisps. The one thing that has shocked me the most thus far is how nice everyone is. So typically not Dutch. I can’t help, but get defensive when someone asks me if I need any help. Customer service scares me. Reverse culture shock is taking affect and I am not even back in the states. 



Tuesday:
Day 3 was spent shopping, going to the National Museum of Ireland, and the Guinness Storehouse tour. The tour was so fun and actually educational, with all of us enjoying our first pint of Guinness at the end. We ended the night with more live music – there’s nothing like an Irishman with a guitar.









Mandy thoughts: It’s amazing to talk to Alex and Sarah about how different our study abroad experiences were. I love being able to process being abroad with them, but it’s also so interesting to hear the differences in culture, academics, and self-awareness that we all experienced.

Alex: Everything could not be more of a better time. My mood changes dramatically because I know that I should be grateful that I am travelling around the United Kingdom with two amazing girls, but slowly it’s hitting me I’ve left my home in Amsterdam forever. So grateful that the Irish welcomed us at every turn with open arms.

Wednesday:
After a sleepless night caused by weird people in the hostel, we took a bus to Belfast, Northern Ireland. We then took the famous Black Taxi Tour of the city that covers the history of the city’s historical political unrest between Protestants and Catholics. The driver grew up during most of the terrorist attacks of the 60s and 70s and was able to give us a personal history of the city, the murals, and how the social and political present day Belfast is.

We missed our ferry boarding time by 8 minutes and had to spend the night in Belfast. The night ended up being great (partly because we stayed in a real-life hotel) and mostly because we were with each other and everyone in Belfast was ridiculously nice.

Alex: I love love Belfast. There was so much history, culture and art that I have heard of, but it was not the same after seeing it and having explained by a real Irishmen. Our tour guide told us that, after taking the black cab tour, a reporter wrote, “The city of Belfast is the largest art gallery in the world.” And I absolutely agree. It was definitely the most moving art gallery I have ever been to.  I may have jinxed us by “wishing we could stay in Belfast a little bit longer”, ultimately leading us to miss our ferry, but I do hope to spend some more time there and dive deeper into the Protestant and Catholic divide.

 

Our tour guide let us sign part of the Belfast Peace Wall 










Thursday:
We took the 7am ferry from Belfast to Scotland, then a bus followed by a train to Glasgow. Even though we were in Scotland for less than 24 hours, it was stunning. We were able to see the water, coastline, various towns, and gorgeous scenery as we traveled. After a nice lunch in Glasgow, we took a bus to Edinburgh. In our 5 hours in Edinburgh, we walked up to the castle, down the Royal Mile, shopped at the Christmas markets, and enjoyed our first Hot Apple Toddy.



Alex: So this is what they mean when people talk about a “backpacking trip.”
Mandy: AKA carrying our backpacks up a large hill and everywhere we go.

Our bus back to London was an overnight Megabus Gold. Not only did we have full beds, pillows, and wi-fi, but we got free muffins. We are all proud (especially Alex) to now be Mega-bus Gold members. 



Friday:
We arrived to London at 7:30am. After a significant nap, Mandy showed Alex and Sarah around her favorite city. We walked in a huge circle around all of the sights of the city and ending at Covent Garden, which is all decorated for Christmas. 

Saturday:
For the final day of the trip, we went to Kensington Garden, shopped at Camden market, sat on Alex’s and Sarah’s suitcases as they pack to head to the States tomorrow, and finished the night in a proper pub.














Mandy’s thoughts: I am exhausted, overwhelmed, and more thankful than words can say for this whirlwind of a trip. We met the most amazing people, saw beautiful countryside, and I was so excited to share some of my favorite places with Alex and Sarah. I still don’t know quite what to think about everything, but having Alex here made it all seem to make more sense.

Alex: I am overwhelmingly grateful to have had the opportunity to explore the United Kingdom. A huge huge thanks to my family for supporting me emotionally (and financially!) through this whole week. I couldn’t have done this without you. It has been amazing to experience such a wonderful adventure with my best friend; ending in a beautiful city I know she loves so much. If anyone is ever in London with Mandy Smith, skip the free tour. She’s chalk full of fun London facts.

So stay tuned this week for final thoughts – Alex returns to the States on the 22nd and Mandy goes the 23rd.

Thank you for everything.









Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Mandy: A Proper British Christmas


It’s Christmas time here in London! Since term ends Friday, this week has been full of Christmas festivities, essays, and goodbyes.

Last week was the dorm’s James Bond themed Christmas party, but it seriously feels like yesterday that they had their welcome party on my first day here, when I met all of the people that would soon become dear friends. 

The next day, Isaac, Felix and I went to Harry Potter Studios! There are no words to describe how amazing it was. We stood in the original Great Hall, saw how flying brooms work, took pictures next to all of the greatest props of the movies, and the boys even had Butterbeer! It’s amazing how easily all of my Harry Potter knowledge came back from reading the books countless times…maybe that’s why my head doesn’t seem to have room for my essays…



My group of friends here live upstairs in Flat number 6 and we had a proper Christmas dinner on Monday night. Silverio and Joey cooked for hours: chicken, potatoes, carrots, stuffing (American style), broccoli, gravy. You name it, they made it, and it was all delicious. We exchanged Secret Santa gifts, had British Christmas crackers with toys in them, and ate until we couldn’t move. It was one of those moments where everything was perfect. I am so blessed that Flat 6 welcomed me into their little family here at King’s. They have brought me such joy and I am going to miss them dearly. It was strange to know that Christmas dinner was the last time we would all be together, since people are starting to go home for Christmas break. And although I am having trouble wrapping my head around the fact that these goodbyes I say here are a bit more permanent than ones I’ve previously said in my life, that moment, that Christmas dinner, was perfection.



This week I am also drowning in essays. I have written 8,000 words worth of essays since Friday and I have about 8,000 more to go. I haven’t written this much since last May at GW, so I’m feeling a bit rusty and stressed. I hate that my last week here has to be like this. But Alex comes on Saturday and then she, Sarah (from Alex’s program in Amsterdam) and I go on our UK trip!

So in summary, this week has been full of feelings – great, Christmassy, stressful, and strange. But I am feeling blessed by all of it – by Christmas shopping, endings, laughter, great dinners, unbelievable friends, and still more adventures ahead.

Much love to you all,
Mandy

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Alex: Budapest, Sinterklaas and 6 Days Left in Holland


So much has happened while I was working on a 38 page research paper on what Dutch Law says about Sexuality and Family (nailed it.)


1. Budapest

I got to visit one of my best friends from GW, Oliver, in Budapest last week! This is where he originally hales from so it was great to see his home life, his girlfriend Bori (who I absolutely adore) and of course him! Oliver had the most exciting few days planned. We (Lyla & I) got to see so much of Buda and Pest, drink lots of mulled wine on the street and get a personal tour of all the cool bars. If that wasn't enough, Oliver took us to this amazing exhibit called, Invisible. It was a tour of four different rooms that were in complete darkness to represent what it would be like to be blind. It was so moving and a little frightening to be in complete darkness for over an hour.





And as you can see from the photos Budapest is one of the most beautiful cities I have ever seen in the world. I actually miss it. The weather was perfect for us and we got a little snow at night. I am so grateful to know Oliver and Bori. They were fantastic hosts, tour guides and friends. 

2. Sinterklaas

I experienced one of the most magical experiences in Holland yesterday. My host mom, my host brother and his girlfriend and I went to my host mom's ex husband's house for Sinterklaas activities. All I have heard about Sinterklaas this semester is how all of Holland is debating whether or not it's racist because of 'Zwaarte Pete'. Zwaarte Pete is a little black slave who follows Sinter Klaas around with the presents. My conclusion: yes, it is very racist. But the Dutch don't believe in racism. Also not the point of this blog post. I experienced the true meaning of Sinter Klaas. Yesterday, my host mom's ex husband (Sam) made us an amazing Egyptian dinner (have I ever mentioned my host siblings are half Egyptian), and with the help of Sinter Klaas made us these amazing gifts. Apparently, you exchange gifts and notes from Sinter Klaas. Everyone else's notes were in Dutch so I couldn't understand what was going on, but everyone was laughing and having a grand time. I've only met Sam once, because he let me interview him for my ISP. But I think with the help of my host siblings he gave me the most thoughtful gift  I have ever received.

The note reads: Dear Alexandra, You've been a good girl this year, and we hope you liked the visit to Holland this year. But try to eat some more vegetables and let the snacks behind. Because f you eat to much snacks, you'll be as round as a tomato. And we wish you a nice stay in Amsterdam, don't ever forget the Santa Claus in Holland! Good luck with your studies and keep up the good work. It is a pity you didn't go to Egypt but I hope you liked this country even as much as Egypt. Greetings Santa Claus (Sinter Klaas) *That's an Egyptian pyramid.
My Sinter Klaas gift to my host family. They loved them and we wore our Christmas sweaters all night!

 3. 6 Days Left in Holland

6 Days. Six. Days. sixdays. 6days. WHAT? HOW DO WE ONLY HAVE SIX DAYS.  I STILL HAVENT GONE TO THE VAN GOGH MUSEUM OR ATE AT SARAH'S PANCAKE HOUSE. IM NOT READY TO LEAVE. stop. time. now.
But actually, this is a very bittersweet feeling. Obviously, I am so blessed by the opportunities I have had abroad and probably don't even deserve six more days in this amazing city. I'm ready to go home, but I'm not ready to leave the life I have made for myself here. I'm not ready to leave my host family, my best friends or the right to drink legally. I'm just not ready yet. But, it is a relief to know that in a week I get to travel the United Kingdom with two of my best friends. After that, I get to return to the States where people are ready to welcome me with open arms. Needless to say, I don't know how I feel, but I understand that the show must go on.


To the beginning of the holiday season,
Alex